Coping

I have a question ladies. My husband and I lost our little girl (1st child) at 13 weeks by a missed miscarriage and had to have a D&C on March 21st. It has truly been the hardest thing I have ever gone through and I still have my bad days. Well, I just found out that a friend of mine just lost her baby today at 37 weeks. While my husband was saying a prayer for them he said, "we know something about what they're going through." Afterwards I asked him what he meant by that and he said because they were farther along. I feel shocked and crushed that he feels like that. It makes no difference to me. We both lost our precious baby. I think it would have hurt just the same 12 wks or 37 wks. Am I being a  hormonal baby or is he right???