So I’ve been liking this guy for awhile and recently he just came back in town for from where he’s stationed on leave. Fast forward we ended up having sex sooo I lost my virginity to him. Mind you I’ve been liking him for awhile before this happened, and I’m having mixed feelings bc I wanna be his gf but at the same time maybe it’s like the whole sex thing talking.... and I feel like if he felt the same way he would put in effort or be straight about it to me if he see me as more then just a friend. I just don’t wanna come off like desperate if I ask him or whatever; what do you guys think?