Do guys get frustrated when you take a long time to orgasm while having sex??

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And how long does it usually take for you guys to orgasm?
Sorry if it's a stupid question. I'm 19 and a virgin so I've got a lot of questions x

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I've only ever come during masturbation or sex with my wife. Previous partners never succeeded, and even with my wife it took at least six months before it happened the first time and longer before it was reliably most times we have sex. What I need to come is very specific, and it took us time to figure it out. We talked about it, and I explained that I still find sex enjoyable even if I don't come, plus I take medication that can make it harder to reach that level so that has an impact. My wife doesn't get frustrated, she listens to my cues and if it's not happening that day we will reach a point where I've had enough and swap over. We don't consider it a bad thing, just different. Plus, during these sessions I've sometimes ended up reaching orgasm from things I didn't think could get me there, which is fun. I only felt comfortable enough with my wife to truly experiment and also be honest about what I needed to get off, it's one of the things I love about our relationship.

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When/if you have sex, don't get discouraged if you cant have an orgasm. About 73% of women don't orgasm by just penetration alone if at all by sex. I cant even have one during sex. I had one one time with anyone, which was my husband, during sex & that's because I used a vibrator also. Dont be ashamed if you have to do that. I'm not trying to be graphic but honestly it just works for us easier if he helps me get off before or after we have sex & he gets off during sex. No question is a stupid question when it comes to your sexual health! I'm all for helping young girls when it comes that a lot. If you have anymore questions you can definitely ask me 🙂

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I’m a virgin too. Don’t worry about it. The time will come when it’s right. That’s just what everyone keeps telling me.

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Oh & also for the guys getting frustrated, they can get over it 🤷🏻‍♀️. Whoever cums faster isn't a race & if they honestly care about you they will want to help you achieve it but wont get angry over it. Its definitely frustrating sometimes for yourself. Because you know it feels good but you just cant do it for different reasons. I just got frustrated with myself earlier for that reason (sorry tmi 😬) but its okay! Just breathe & focus on feeling good 🙂.

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Only if they don’t k ow what their doing lol 😆

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I wouldn’t know. My ex either made me cum before he did or I didn’t cum. He did last for a minimum of 20-30 minutes so that was something at least. Had a guy the other day who made me cum a lot but he didn’t. That was honestly more frustrating for me cus he got soft on me. 
For me it depends on how hard we’re going. It’s it’s soft and “loving” (or whatever) I don’t cum. It doesn’t do anything for me. We going hard? Or I’ll be cumming in 15 minutes at most

Do guys get frustrated when you take a long time to orgasm while having sex??

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