if your spouse was a pathological liar and attempted to sleep with his friend of 10+ years younger sister but she “rejected him” while you were pregnant and then got mad at you for not getting over it because nothing physically happened ( supposedly ) what would you do ?

i have another child from a very abusive relationship and my husband knows all the details to it ..

he says i’m not being fair for wanting to leave when i asked for the last two years to seek couples counseling and expressed how unhappy i have been .. recently my grandma passed away and he got mad at me for not wanting his comfort but more so my moms and siblings ( i don’t want his because he doesn’t value his side ) .. sorry i’m ranting i’m just tired of repeating myself to my loved ones who are torn in between their opinions and not wanting to over step and i’ve also seen a therapist for myself .