I’m about to get married in a few months and I’ve been having increasing feelings for a really good friend of mine who is even IN the wedding party. I’ve been attracted to him in the past, but it normally fades when we don’t hang out as much, then flares up again when we spend more time together. It’s been this way for over three years. I feel so guilty for these feelings, but I’m pretty sure it’s just one of those inexplicable chemical attractions because no matter what I do, I always end up feeling this way again. It does make me worry about my upcoming wedding though. I know cold feet/jitters are normal but what about repeatedly having feelings for another person? Also I don’t plan to cheat on my fiancé with this person (or ever), but he is fun to be around, we’re really good friends, and he’s in the wedding party, so avoidance isn’t an option. What do you ladies think?