So we've been together 6 yrs and just got married 3 months ago and hes always wanted kids from the time I met him up until recently and he knows I've always dreamed of a big family but he didn't,he just wanted one or two well last night we were talking about our friends and I joked that I felt like we're late to the party bc majority of them have a kid or just found out there pregnant and he just blew up and was like oh why would you want kids all our friends are broke and unhappy (which isn't true) but I was like whatever so I slept on it brought it up again and asked why ya know you always said you wanted kids from the time we got together and couldn't wait to build a family bla bla and he says we'll thats bc I got smarter now and I said well that's unfair to change your mind like that bc I was always under the impression of we're gonna have our own family and he knows how important that is to me and he just says WELL it doesn't just effect you it effects me too. What do I even say or do after this? SO SORRY FOR THIS SUPER LONG POST