Help!!

Marchella

Ok so this is the deal a close friend is having her baby shower tomorrow evening and I want to go but I don’t want to ruin her day... we all share the same friends and they don’t know that I’m expecting yet we’re not hiding it but haven’t really told many... I’m now 14 weeks and have quite a noticeable bump, I know they will all be asking and I can’t suck it in... I feel that if I go or don’t go she will be upset either way.. input please!