Did I make a bad decision.....

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3 years ago I was raped, I conceived and decided to keep the baby. My daughter is beautiful, she never met the guy she’s going on 3 in December. I just don’t know if I made the best choice for me. She’s happy, BEAUTIFUL, extremely smart and healthy. But I’m struggling emotionally now.

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First, I am sorry for what happened. I highly suggest looking into therapy, you made the decision to keep your baby and now you have to find a way for yourself and her to leave the past in the past and move forward with your life with her. I truly hope you can heal from what happened. Just remember, neither you nor your daughter are defined by how she was conceived ❤️

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I was raped at 14, and kept my son. It was hard for a while, but it was 100% the right decision and now I cant imagine life without him and am "happy" about what happened to me because I wouldnt have my amazing son otherwise. I know who the father is but I haven't let him in my son's life for anything. 
If you find yourself struggling, get help. Talking it out is amazing therapy. Reach out to your parents, friends, a therapist, or anyone who will listen.

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You’re so brave. My mom also conceived me the same way. I just want to let you know you’re strong and amazing. My mom is my hero because I know how hard it must’ve been for her to raise me knowing how I came to be. She still never took it out on me and was an amazing mother. I’m sure your daughter will see you the same way and she’ll thank you one day. 
I’m sure you’d benefit from counseling to work through your feelings. And I’m very sorry for what happened to you.

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My oldest is 5, i had the same situation with her. I was lucky enough to have help and support from my now husband, his family, and friends and their families. My doctor back then didn't believe in mental health so i had a tough time coping with my PTSD for a long time, but my husband helped me work on our own form of exposure therapy and we managed to get me into counselling and it has helped tremendously. 
It'll never be perfect, but it can be better ❤️ i really hope you get the help you need

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Struggling with what?

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I was raped by my ex one night when I was drunk. I was passed out in bed and woke up to him on top of me. I was on my period at the time. I had a tampon in. The tampon was inside of me for 8 days. I was too afraid to go to the hospital. My daughter is 2. She is beautiful & smart. I wouldn’t have it any other way ❤️ I hope you get some closure !

Did I make a bad decision.....

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