Am i being ungrateful? Or no

Hey yall. My birthday is this week and a long time ago i made plans w my friend to do something but alot has happened and i wasnt able to make it all work. So my bestfriend willingly decided to plan something for us, which i definitely am extremely grateful for. Its just the fact that she knows I really dont like parties and she’s trying to force me to go bc its my “bday” and she’s saying im difficult...i told her i dont mind doing something it just dont like parties and there’s way more other things to do. I’d rather just get some good food get a lil drunk and maybe go to a lounge. Idk, i told her my thoughts but she still keeps trying to push it on me and its getting aggravated. Should i feel some type of way?