Am I doing something wrong?

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So I asked my boyfriend to back off of this girl he was friends with because I felt very uncomfortable with it. He said he wasn't flirting with her but I can't believe it. He might not intentionally do it but he is. He says there is nothing going at all with them and she just is a friend. I just feel so uncomfortable with it!! I believe he would never cheat on me but I can't handle it. I'm not the type of person to handle it. Does that make me a bad person? I would think he should be respecting of my feelings. Am I doing something wrong?

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I AM THE SAME WAY!!! Do not feel bad at all.

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Out of respect for you he should back off...the fact that he doesn't want to at all would bother me and he's willing to get into a argument with you about it

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No your not. He should respect your feelings and not speak to her. Maybe you can start hanging out together?

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Same spot as you... Feeling lost every time I ask about her he gets mad

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It's normal to feel this way some times, but don't let it consume you to the point that you're dictating with whom your BF associates. No one likes a stage 5 clinger.

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My BF would reassure me that nothing is going on and swear he would never cheat but he would also stop if I was uncomfortable with it. He's the best no question about it. He prefer to be friends with guys, anyways

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I am the same way. I told my man it's just the way I am and I can't deal with flirty-ness on his part. He totally understands and stopped flirting with girls when he has a few drinks.

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If you trust him then this should not be a problem. My best friend is a guy and his girlfriend just had to get used to the face that we have a vary odd and only friendship relashonship. My husband had to get used to it as well but his girlfriend came around us together and saw how we are just friends. I am now really closes to her as well. Good luck!

Am I doing something wrong?

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