Need to vent

I’m 5 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby and I only make about $37,500 a year and I’m not sure how much my boyfriend makes but he is a veteran. We aren’t married, but I’m hoping he proposes before we tell my dad and siblings that we are expecting (they will judge tf out of us if we aren’t married). I’m just worried about buying all the baby item. I will go into debt if I need to!! How do you manage your money?