I am in tears

My son’s grandma has been babysitting him while his father & I are at work. I just found out that she has been letting him cry it out. She believes that it will make him more independent. I have read so many articles that are against the cry it out method for newborns. Studies have shown that it raises cortisol levels in babies and it has life long effects. It also teaches a baby not to trust you, they communicate by crying, & he has been ignored. I am literally shaking how dare she do that to my 6 week old newborn. He is crying because he needs something! I don’t know what to do we cannot afford daycare.