I had a private scan last Saturday at 9 weeks and they told me I’ve miscarried. The baby had no heartbeat and had stopped growing about 6 weeks 😭

I have no symptoms of miscarriage and my body still thinks I’m pregnant.

I went to the hospital Monday assuming they would re scan and then give me some treatment but there are rules where if the embryo is under 7mm then they have to rescan in 10 days to confirm the miscarriage before any treatment can be given. This is in case someone has their dates wrong but I was tracking and know I should have been 9weeks.

So I am booked in next Tuesday morning for a scan and the operation to remove everything.

I’m just struggling with this wait. I feel so in limbo and useless. Knowing it could happen naturally at any point. I am also a bridesmaid at the weekend which I was so looking forward to now I’m just scared I’m going to miscarry at some point at the wedding.

Anyone had to go through this wait? Did it happen naturally or did you need the operation in the end?

Update: They couldn’t do the procedure as the embryo has grown but is still under 7mm and still no heartbeat 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I have to wait a whole week again for another scan. If it is over 7mm next week with no heartbeat still they will do the procedure.

So frustrating, just in a weird pregnant limbo