Are you afraid your parents and in-laws will get too much in your space when baby is brand new?

Here is the scoop, I'm so nervous about getting overwhelmed or mean with my mom or mother in law, they are so excited they mean well, but I hate being told what to do, directly or indirectly. I get along very well with both but somehow I feel like i need to mark my territory to ensure I get the most bonding time with baby when she comes, I would hate to spend the first days watching my baby in everyone's arms but mine unless it is for feeding or changing diapers. I feel so selfish yet I can't stop feeling this way!!