A secret

It sucks that we feel the need to even keep it a secret. We shouldn't have to deal with rude ass comments. We pay our own bills and take care of our kids but yet we caught so much negativity for having baby number 3. When he got here people kept asking if we were going to try for a girl. The disappointment that everyone gave because we have all boys is ridiculous. Why is it no one thinks that maybe we are happy and just want all boys. Why would it kill anyone to just be happy and supportive for once. My MIL thought it was okay to tell me that my SO and I shouldn't be having more kids. My dad doesn't believe anyone should have more than 1.

So here I am unable to share my excitement because I know I'll be met with negativity. We plan to not tell anyone (except our babysitter) until the baby is here. They will get to find out through fb.