I Hate Her

I know hate is a strong word, but I HATE my mother in law.

She has no respect for me in my husband and I's relationship and he is a Mama's boy and brainwashed by her.

She basically can do no wrong in his eyes and I am the bad guy, ALWAYS!

There are so many things she has done.. I wouldn't even know where to start to begin to tell someone.

My biggest pet peeve is that she constantly comes over our house UNANNOUNCED. She just pops up at any given time without calling or asking and stays for a minimum of three hours each time.

I told my husband it is rude and disrespectful and that she needs to call first and ASK if she can come over.

She just came over while we were having sex and he didn't hear her at the door so she got mad and left.

She came back an hour later and I went off on him about it because I am sick or it and now I am the bad guy.

Wtf?! We are a grown, MARRIED COUPLE. We need privacy in our own house. IDC if she is your mom, she isn't mine and she needs to call before she comes over.

Everytime I try to talk to my husband about it in a civilized manner, he refuses to hear me out. He tells me to stop being disrespectful and that his mom can do whatever she pleases because she is his mom.

Dear lord, on this journey of TTC please bless me with a baby boy so that I can brain wash him and make him a Mama's boy to this extremity so his father can see how it is.

I can't deal....