Ladies neither of our parents will be at our wedding

I’m going through the same thing right now actually. My fiancé and I are getting married in 10 days (😱) on August 13th. We have been together for two and a half years and ever since we got together my mom and I have lost contact. She doesn’t respond to any of my messages and has no interest in attending her only daughters wedding. My parents are divorced and I haven’t talked to my father in 13 years, my brother is in Belgium with his girlfriend and my grandma lives in Germany. (That is my entire family) my fiancé’s mother hates me with a passion (idk why) and she ruins every family get together or important event so she will not be attending. The only guests to our wedding is his father and his fathers girlfriend. It’s not exactly the wedding I dreamed of as a little girl, but all I care about is being able to call him my husband and make our family official. Ps. We’re doing a simple courthouse wedding with a small intimate reception at home. ❤️

The day is about you (the plural of you), so do what makes you happy and what will be memorable for you! If eloping is the experience you want, go for it! If a small ceremony is what you want, also an option!I remember a friend making comments about my dad who I had no relationship with not being invited to our wedding and her "who is supposed to walk you down the aisle then?" Remarks. I walked myself down the aisle because I'm a big girl and it's what made me happy! 🤣 He was in the hospital 3 months later and died less than 6 months later and I had to clean up the mess he left behind... but I was thankful for not having to desk with his mess during our wedding! *Live with no regrets*

Yea elope!! Elope because of saving money, drama, etc. Good luck to you guys and the baby! ♥️♥️♥️

I would elope 💁🏼‍♀️My husband and I *thankfully* took matters in to our own hands and got married at the courthouse. That day is my favorite because our wedding ended up being a nightmare.I actually lost family over that stupid fucking day 🤦🏼‍♀️SO, I’ve said time and time again, if I could do it all over again- I’d drop the wedding completely and spend the money on eloping in a way that made me happy (dress, photographer, close friends, etc.).

My mother in law and sister in law never came to our wedding. I'm surprised my father in law came. Enjoy your day without them- the people who are there want to be there and that's the most important thing.

Nooo. If YOU want a wedding YOU have a wedding. Even if it’s 10 people and your dog. That is YOUR day. Do not let anyone ruin it for you. Whoever doesn’t want to attend, screw them!

Slope for sure

I would elope...I think that would be brilliant!I loved my wedding but to be honest if I were to redo I think I'd elope-just seems awesome!