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An
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I'm not a mom, so I cannot tell you my personal feelings. Just please know that you DID give birth to your baby. I know society is weird as fuck but your baby is very much here on this earth and unless you adopted him, you most certainly gave birth to him. Also, from what I know, a c-section can be far worse, in terms of recovery. With that being said, I consider you a mom and I think you should too. Congratulations on your sweet bundle of joy ❤ Go sneak a kiss and remember that YOU created and birthed that little one.
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Sasha • Aug 3, 2019
And Thankyou for taking the time to do that. You have no idea how much better I feel. 😊
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An • Aug 3, 2019
I'm glad I was able to help by shedding some light, on the situation. It sucks to think that society has ever made mother's feel anything less than that, due to a c-section. You're all so strong and nothing should have you ladies feeling otherwise. I'm sorry about the recovery, I'm sure it's a handful plus more. I hope it's a speedy and uneventful recovery, I'm beyond glad your partner is helping out. I'm sure it's tough for the both of you to adjust to a new baby in the home. I'm sending my love out to you and your family ❤ I hope you can start to feel better, physically and emotionally. You can message me whenever, if you'd like to speak again. It was nice talking to you :)
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Sasha • Aug 3, 2019
What a lovely thing to say, it’s honestly the most surreal feeling. I don’t by any means love him any less I just ponder how he got here sometimes. Yes the recovery is awful, very lucky his dad is amazing and hands on as I aren’t hardly able to pick him up sometimes 😞
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I feel so many emotions my 3rd n last baby came via c section not planned he was stuck n wouldnt come out i dont feel like i gave birth .. i feel violated for some reason idk if it make sense to you ladies n the recovery is horroble im 17days pp had an infected insicion now it has a yeast infection on it .. im in pain every day
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Desiree • Aug 3, 2019
This baby was my longest labor and never again will i have another lol
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Sasha • Aug 3, 2019
I understand exactly, there isn’t any awareness of the depression you suffer after this! Just a good job I have such a supportive partner. I just feel like a I couldn’t finish the job off.
Sa
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I very much know how you feel. I had a c-section 3 weeks ago and I feel like I didn’t give birth or I am some how less of a mom because I didn’t have the natural birth experience. I just remind myself everyday that my daughter is here and healthy and that’s what really matters.
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Sasha • Aug 3, 2019
Exactly that!! I’m so glad I’m not on my own. Xx
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