Submissive wives

I’ve seen a lot of women recently admit to being submissive to their husband’s in the marriage, no I don’t mean sexually you dirty women 😉. But they let their men rule the house, make all the decisions, control the finances, and control their bodies; I’ve even seen some women say you need to always be sexually available to your husband’s even if it’s just bending over and taking it (okay I lied a bit about the sexual part earlier) I’m honestly just amazed and a bit appalled by this, we worked so hard for independence just for women to start going back to being treated like property or pets. So ladies what are y’all thoughts on this, should women be submissive or independent?