Okay so me and my boyfriend have spoken about having kids, and we’ve been together for about four nearly five years now. I want children in my mid twenties, late twenties at the latest, 29 being the oldest I’d be... but he wants them in the early thirties, 28 is his youngest..

we want three children... so I’m supposed to try and bang three kids out in one year?!

How can we go about trying to reach an agreement here?