Dating in Michigan sucks..nobody knows how to date anymore. Mostly all the men have kids already..I am not about that life...I don’t even have any kids yet. I only interracially date...Swirl on...and half of the white guys want to experiment..I am not trying be nobody’s first lightskin black woman. Nobody wants to get married anymore..but will laid down and have a child. No, I want marriage not no wham bam thank you mam. I refuse to be someone’s girlfriend for a long period of time..if marriage is not in the works, then I am not going to waste my time. I am tired of getting these men that are not serious and aren’t about nothing. I am ready to settle down but none of these Michigan men that I have come upon are not ready to settle down. Tinder, okcupid and pof on don’t work...Swirlr..you got to pay for membership and those guys are too damn lazy and cheap to pay for a membership.