Ok to start with, I’m a shy person. I don’t usually go a start a conversation first because anxiety kicks in when I try.

His mother is a very talkative person. But she’s also a very vein person.

From day one she’s acted like she’s had a problem with me. Maybe because I’m shy and she’s the type that she wants everyone to run to her and greet her.

My husbands mom and dad are divorced and very different people from one another. I get along with his dad and stepmom PERFECTLY fine. I can talk to them all day. Ever since I met them they have invited Jake and me out to dinner and over for dinner and to do other things together. His mom NEVER does. She includes all of her other Sons and whoever they’re with or their wives. Never tried to get to know me since day one. When we got engaged she acted like she didn’t want to speak her opinion on the matter and never acted happy for us. Still didn’t try to get to know me. Ok so along comes wedding planning. Next thing you know her nose is all up in how we are planning. NEVER once did she say “I like that idea” or “that’s nice” nothing ever positive. Instead according to her “we were doing everything ALLLLLLL WRONG!!” So she told my mother.

So my mom one day decided she was gonna text her to see if she wanted to help plan a bridal shower with her. And my mom told her what she knew I wanted for a bridal shower, I didn’t want much I wanted it simple, no men, and fun bridal games. She instead of including my mom in on bridal shower plans when my mom is the one who wanted to throw it, she goes and throws it herself after makin the remark she only wanted their side of the family at the shower she throws and that she wanted my mom to throw her own. I told her I only wanted one for the whole family to be at. Of course we are all family. Ok so she threw the party all on her own and when the party comes around she’s rolling her eyes the whole time, especially during the games. She made sure no one on their side of the family played any games. She also made she Jake came and a few other men.

Other things happened to but not worth mentioning..

Now that we are married. We ended up pregnant, we told everyone, everyone was happy and ecstatic, this woman rolls her eyes and said “figured... congrats.” And that was it.. then MOVED ON TO A DIFFERENT TOPIC.

We later miscarried at 5 weeks in June. Now we are pregnant again, announced it, everyone was happy. AGAIN... THIS WOMAN DOESNT SAY ANYTHING!!!

But listen to this. We just found out her other son is having another baby and we were there when he told her.. his mother acted as if she won the lottery, ran over to her stomach screaming “LEMME SEE LEMME SEE IT!!!!”

I am at loss of words..

Any advice to what should be done? I honestly don’t even want her at the shower or really around.. ever since me and her both won’t speak when we are in the same room. She rolls her eyes at me and yup I do it back when I’m not avoiding her completely.