I called my OB to set up my first appt. I’m a first time mom, I’m 4 weeks and I asked about coming in sooner cause I’ve been super sick and they said “well you’re at a high chance for miscarriage at this point with how early you are, so not worth all the testing in case it doesn’t all work out” I just am worried cause I’m cramping and nauseated and faint feeling....

I get that, but I feel like that was a terrible response... would you feel uncomfortable and want a new OB?