What do you do after sex? Or feel afterward?

After the last two nights of passion with my husband of 5 years. Idk why I get this way of feeling insecure... I second guess myself of my role in the bedroom. We talk, and I tend to take our convo sour and not something enlightening...Idk what should I do or what should we talk about? Of course, we're enjoying our pressed bodies after, but I wanna get into his mind sometimes of what he felt or linked about me, etc...

I'm struggling and don't know what I'm watching I guess... I'm overall satisfied...i just want to make sure he still enjoys drinking me as much as I love it!!!