Kinda about health, more about lifestyle..

Don't really know where else to post..

My husband wants us to move into a old farmhouse that needs a lot of work! I'm trying to stay positive about it all but I can't seem to find that many positives in it, there are more downfalls than anything!

Downfalls:

-Needs peeling wallpaper removed

-needs to be painted

-Floor slopes down

-Only has 2 bedrooms & the 1 wouldn't be able to use 2nd one the way the stairs are with my 2 little ones under 2.

-needs new vinyl in kitchen & bathroom

-too many walls dividing rooms

-2 rooms that are pretty much useless they way they are connected to other areas of house & cant be used as bedroom unless wall or door put up in doorways.

-no closet space

-no central heat or air

-25-30 minutes from town

& the main one..

-I don't think I'll be happy there..

Positives:

-closest neighbors are literally cows

-master bedroom roomy

-lots of cupboard space in kitchen

-cheaper electric bill especially in winter

-beautiful view

I just can't seem to find much positive in this house. Its overwhelming! I'm just over 5 weeks postpartum so that's not helping with all the stress I have about it all. I'm not a country girl. I like traffic and noise, most the time the quiet outside during the days tim gives me anxiety.. I've always lived in the city till I moved to Kentucky a little over 6 years ago.

I really have no one else to talk to other than my husband about this..

What would you ladies do in this situation? At this point I just want to give up.. I just don't want to live in a place I don't think I would be happy.. My husband just loves the house so that just adds to my anxiety & stress.