Okay ive tried to be nice about it but im beyond irritated at this point me and my husband both work nights same times come home together we typically go get our daughter on our way home from the sitter.now like any other couple with a child no matter the age you work together when it comes to taking care if that child so why is it im working 8-9 hours like you are and you feel no need to get up and tend to our kid it’s literally ONLY ME EVERYDAY i know I shouldn’t complain because i love taking care of my daughter shes my world but wouldn’t it be nice to actually get more then 2 hours of sleep before o have to get up and start anything it makes me livid that he act like his sleep cant be disturbed i think it’s selfish asf that you will sleep a full 7hours when your wife is struggling to stay awake with only 2 because you do t feel like getting up to tend to her every now and then i feel cheated and unappreciated like alot i know im a mother and we as mothers will always jump to do it first but what the point if her father being here if im doing all the work and he feels its justified just because he works.....and thats it i refuse to keep living like this cranky asf all day and on top of that alone all day this is a everyday thing and im really over it looks like me trying to be nice and left him get some rest came back to bite me in the ass hard i am over it