so my boyfriend & i have been sexual for two years now & i’ve been with men before.. but a couple weeks ago when sexy time was on, he was fingering me & my clit got swollen. it was only one side & it got pretty big. it didn’t hurt or anything, it was just uncomfortable & it made me want to stop. the other day we were messing around again & it happened so i stopped. i’ve never experienced this before & i did some research on it but i’ve been tested for any diseases & std’s etc. it made me feel embarrassed & i just want it to stop so i can stop being self conscious. please help !!