Not doing a gender reveal

Anyone else not doing a gender reveal?? We have our reasons as to why we won’t do one which I won’t get into for the sake of not starting arguments are hurting feelings. But I have so many family members that are legit disappointed that they won’t find out with confetti or balloons and instead will have to suffer through just being told by two excited parents. I even have one SIL who said she wants to do one for me even if I won’t, which I don’t even know what that means because we will be finding out at our appointment. It all just seems like so much extra when honestly, I don’t care in the slightest what they sex of the baby is, I just want healthy.