Not so supportive DH.
Now, don't get me wrong. I love my husband to death and he works very hard to provide for our growing family. He is the sole provider and he's okay with that. But sometimes he doesn't seem to understand that I am growing a human being and it takes a lot of work and makes me uncomfortable and sometimes cranky. Maybe once a week I'll ask for a hip rub or something and he'll rub my hip for like a minute and say hands hurt. Lately I've been asking for them more because I'm annoyed with his attitude towards taking care of me. Until recently, we only had one car, but I haven't once asked him to stop and buy me something I was craving on his way home from work. Then he comes home and I've made dinner and cleaned and taken care of our three dogs all day long and he just acts like whatever. He does take care of me, but I feel like he should pamper me a little more. I feel selfish, but I really haven't asked for a lot in my almost 34w. I rub his feet and his back when he's uncomfortable because I love him and want him to feel relaxed after a long day. But if I ask for a rub, he acts like its a chore. Is it wrong to feel owed while pregnant? I'm not trying to bash my husband, so please no negative comments. I just want to know if anyone else feels like they are missing out on being spoiled while pregnant.
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