arguing

Sarah

me and my boyfriend CAN NOT stop arguing!! we’ve tried everything and it is non stop. it’s never about big things but we have difference of opinions on A LOT of little things. i’ll admit we both feel the need to be right but most of the time i feel like i only start getting defensive after he says what i’m telling him isn’t right or there’s a better answer, even if it’s just an opinion.

another reason we argue is because he is not sensitive at all. he’s not even sensitive to other people’s emotions (which is the problem) like if he hurts my feelings he thinks he’s done nothing wrong so it’s okay to argue it instead of apologizing or asking me what happened to understand. he just tells me i’m overly sensitive about everything.

please god help us because i promise we love each other 😂 i love his aggravating ass so much i just hate arguing and i hate trying to explain to him how to handle these situations because it’s like he doesn’t understand feelings at all or i just don’t know how to put it into words correctly. ☹️