I’ve been with the same guy for 10 years. We’ve been married a year and a half but I want a divorce. He has been unfaithful online for as long as I can remember but my dumb*** always took him back because he would promise it would never happen again. He will private message girls he doesn’t know about how beautiful they are and he’s talked sexually explicit things with many of these girls and then lie to me about it. He tried saying one girl he was messaging at 4 am was his cousin .....I caught him red handed blatantly lying about that and all he had to say was “ your right that’s a lie you caught me” ..

He has a problem and I’ve tried to get him to go to counseling but he won’t. So I’m just done now and he’s pulling the victim act again on me crying and acting like I’m the one who hurt him. We own a house together but no children so the only hard part is the house(it was my grandmothers house) cause I really don’t want to have to sell it but I think that’s my only option :(. Sorry for such a long post..just needing some support