Threesome??

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Ok ladies, serious question.? Ive been with my fiance about 8 years and earlier in the relationship he mentioned a threesome but of course i rejected because i was young and unexperienced, now that i have experience with a girl i want to surprise him with a threesome for his birthday. But i dont want it to be all about me because its more for us both. Its two things im afraid of. 1. How would I find a girl? 2. What if he rejects it an feels like i did it for me? How embarrassing. I need answers!!! What do I do? Surprise or ask him first.

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Definitely bring up that idea to him again. Because just how YOU changed your mind, HE may have also changed his mind, and he may not want it anymore!! Just check in 1st, to be 100% sure!! 😊

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I'm a swinger so have a lot of practical advice

1. Try fabswingers.com or fetlife to find a women. Bi single females are called unicorns as their so rare and know it.

2. Make sure you get one who is into girls and guys. Otherwise he will feel left out

3. If she's reasonably good looking and ur down with it. Ud be incredibly unlucky for him to turn it down. Just make sure he's not stressed from work and hasn't masturbated that day.

If he likes it you could always get a mmf :)

I'd advise talking about it and getting clear ground rules and that applies to the other person too.

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Dnt think it should be a complete surprise i think its definitely something that needs to be discussed as it can go horribly wrong.

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Might not be something you want to "surprise" him with. Maybe bring it up so he's prepared and lot like a chick walks in after he just took a big fart! I've also heard of these things going horribly wrong so please make sure everyone is comfortable before moving forward. If you're comfortable that's the most important thing for me, I feel like women are usually the ones left feeling weird later.

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Start bring up threesome find away to bring it into a conversation and ask him how he feel about it

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Honestly finding a girl you can trust is the hardest part. My boyfriend and i have had one before and it was a little messy just know what youre getting into. Ps i dont think your man would mind.

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Um I think the best way to go into a threesome for the first time is for the two partners to talk about it beforehand and discuss their boundaries. Though I can certainly see the appeal of surprise. But what if he does something or you do something that the other partner isn't comfortable with. If this is just a sexual experience, then you need to make sure your pre existing relationship is okay first and foremost. If you know your man so well as to know that he will react positively for a threesome, then I say go for it, spring it on him! But make sure to go over some rules briefly before y'all start, like what is allowed and what isn't (if anything). You can ask him in hypothetical terms before you even start looking for a girl, so you already have a general idea of what you both want and don't want, and maybe that will be a factor in how you choose your third person.

For example, a MF couple might want to have a threesome together with another man. The husband of the female might be ok with his wife giving a BJ or having vaginal sex, but no to the stranger doing anal. Another thing to talk about could be the use of protection. Before inviting the other girl into bed, make sure she is clean or that you are using protection.

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I have thought about doing that. . Just I wouldn't want him touching her lol.yes I'd ask him.

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This is something you seriously need to talk about first. Having a threesome is a huge deal and it's something you have to make sure you're both 100% on it. I don't even know how you'd find someone to participate with yall, when I had one it was with my best friend of 10 years. Do you have any close friends it wouldn't be weird with?

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