If you asked your partner to not go to a specific pub but found out he lied to you & was going all along and you said the only way to restore my trust is to do what I originally asked & not go? What would you do risk your family to go or not?

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There is a reason behind being asked not to go to this pub in the first place ... I have to ask this question for my sanity.

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I would respect my partner enough not to, especially if there’s a good reason. 
But at the same time, I think trying to tell him where he can/can’t go is a little toxic
Depends on the reason!

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If you have a good reason, it should be respected. Theres tons of other places to go.

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I wouldn’t tell my SO he wasn’t allowed to go to a certain pub 🤷🏼‍♀️ and I certainly wouldn’t be with someone who tried to control me

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It’s decent respect

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I'm assuming that you have a very good reason for not wanting him to go. Since that's the case he should put you first. There are many different places he could go. If he cares more about going to this specific place than what it will do to his relationship he obviously doesn't value it or care if it works. A relationship is about understanding and compromise if you can't compromise and respect your partners feelings you shouldn't be in a relationship. You don't just get to do whatever you want once another person is involved and a lot of people don't understand that.

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It would depend on the reason why you asked him not to go. I think you need to have a very good reason before forbidding someone from doing something.

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If it’s for a good reason I’d be pissed off. If it’s over something stupid then no, but then I wouldn’t have told him he couldn’t go in the first place. Hard to tell without context in your situation though.

If you asked your partner to not go to a specific pub but found out he lied to you & was going all along and you said the only way to restore my trust is to do what I originally asked & not go? What would you do risk your family to go or not?

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