I'm really lost

Jaylynn • Mom of 1🧒🏾 & 3🐈🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛

So I recently started a relationship with my bestfriend of about 7 years. There has always been sexual tension between us but now that we're together, nothing. I have to literally tell him what I want in order for a hope to get sexually aroused.

I've gained weight since we've been together(not much just like 12lbs, in 2 months)and I'm growing more and more insecure with myself. I feel like the love we share is all he wants from me. He stresses me out about getting me pregnant and the only time he wants sex is when I'm ovulating.

Is there something wrong with me or what? I honestly don't know what to think for feel anymore.