A family member (who I have cut out of my life for many reasons And never talk to) sent me a message and told me that people wouldn't judge me for my disability so much if I lost weight and was prettier. What?!

Like, I don't care what people think about my disabilities, but like where did that come from? Every person who learns about my invisible illnesses have been really kind and always curious (I don't mind answering questions. I love to educate).

It's not my first time being fat-shamed or told I'm not pretty by that branch of the family, so honestly I'm not super surprised but dang, I cut them out over a month ago and it was so random.

Sorry just needed to grump and y'all might understand.