I’m at 38w+2 Days. I own a house cleaning business and as much as I have stopped cleaning as of last month I still find myself helping out for an hour or two here and there.

Yesterday was a bad day. I was crampy, sore, constipated and it hurt to so much as stand, but I still managed to do all our dishes, wash our two bathroom sinks, tidy the living room, make dinner and clean most of the dishes from that.

Today, my husband decided he wanted to clean the house. He even said, you don’t have to do anything and I took this opportunity to rest. Well, he starts getting into the cleaning and realizes the house is dirtier than he thought. So I suggested some cleaning tips to make his job easier. He snapped at me and then said “why don’t you help then?” I said “I’m not going to help if you talk to me like that” and he proceeded to call me useless.

I turned away and said “yeah I’m definitely not helping now.” He flipped out, yelled at me to the point of making me cry and after he yelled “please! Please help me!” I went around and did some light dusting. Assuring him I didn’t want to be “useless or anything.”

Does he not realize that in a couple weeks all I will be able to do is feed baby, sleep and eat? Bad day.