Anal the correct way?

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I keep seeing you guys saying "it doesn't hurt if you do it right" What is the right way to do it then? We have tried like twice and he will get the tip in but it just hurts so bad I make him stop. Both times he was behind me and I was down on my forearms, butt up, and on my knees. He just would go straight in. Is that not right? This may be stupid questions but I wouldn't mind giving it a second try if we just knew how to make it not hurt like I'm being stabbed in the butt lol.

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Ive done anal about 8 times, and finding it enjoyable. Follow my advice, I promise it'll help. Lay on your side with him behind you. Knees up towards your chest as much as possible. Lots of lube on him, on you, and inside of you. Foreplay, lots of it. When its time for his grand entrance, relax. Dont tense any muscles whatsoever. Let him put the tip in, and just keep rubbing your clit. Flex your anal muscles and let them get tired and loosen up. It helps a lot. Make sure you have great communication. Try putting the tip in and out, in and out. Odds are you wont be able to go very far at all the first few times. But once you get use to the feeling of being stretched, your body will accept it. I mean in all honesty, your butt is thinking omg this isnt supposed to happen! But you'll get use to it. It is a lot easier with anal foreplay I swear. No, it doesnt hurt if youre doing it right, after you've gotten use to it a couple of times that is. If it hurts to bad, stop. Try again another time. It takes practice and patience. Just take your time. Relax, clitoral stimulation, lots of lube, and communication. Good luck! I hope this helped

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I have to be on top for it... any other way hurts too much.

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We just started anal a couple nights ago. We played for a good hour before and he just let me sit on it as he rubbed my clit. It was very pleasurable

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For me doggy anal is a little more painful.  However if you lay on the edge of the bed, legs up and try it that way it doesn't hurt as bad.  Another way I really enjoy it is hard to explain but maybe you'll know what I mean.  My SO sits on the bed on his knees.  I get into bridge pose(Google if you don't know what it is) and lower myself on to him.  He supports my hips as I ride him that way, it's amazing!  The trick is to relax

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I've tried it a few times and always would be on my side and very relaxed

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I've never done it but was told you should get them to try with their fingers first to get used to it, using the little finger then working their way to the thumb before trying it with their penis.

Anal the correct way?

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