Saturday my guy took off to a family members house, before he left he got a message from a work friend inviting him to a bbq he was throwing for his dad.. thats what he told me... i asked him are we going? Since i was gonna meet him later at his family house with our 3 yr old. I even told him ill have my sister babysit if you wanna go out. He said no he had stuff to work on at his family house. Well i hung out with his sistet while he was gone, by the time i got home it was around almost 9 and he texted me if i was going over. I said no its okay but ill pick u up if you were drinking. He said no my brother will drop me off. He got dropped off my his girl cousin around almost midnight he got into bed and knocked out.

The next day i asked him if he had gone to the bar? He said no but that his brother and other family members went. That he got dropped of at home. Well yesterday we went to his family house and he was telling the truth.. buuuut completely failed ti mention that he went to that said friends bbq with his brother.. and took a shot.

I was like wtf??? Why wouldn't you tell me. And hes like im telling u now. Well obviously I got upset it just seems like planned it out so well for him to go on his own and not take me. Which he could've just said he was just going.. but he lied. Thats what im pissed about, that he basically also said he can do what he wants that hes not doing anything wrong that all i do is assume.

Well I told him dont treat people that way you dont want to be treated. Idk if im overreacting he thinks its whatever. We already haven't been doing so good. And he goes and does this shit.