Cousins treated different
I don’t know if this is the right thread for this but I’m at a loss. A little back story is I’m adopted and my brother isn’t, he’s always been the favorite and ever since I’ve moved out of the house(and state) him and I never talk UNLESS I’m in town. My whole pregnancy he never once asked how I was doing or how my son was. When I visited he was just kind of like ehh your pregnant whatever, but would never acknowledge him as his nephew. When I had my son i sent him a picture and just let him know he was here and I got one emoji back and nothing else, he still doesn’t even ask or talk about my son. My other brothers who are my bio brothers but 18 and 16 show more interest. So basically his girlfriend and him got pregnant a few weeks after I had visited. I’m ofcourse happy for him and text every so often to see how she and the baby are doing(if he even texts me back🙄) but I can’t help but feel slightly annoyed that right after me he has a baby and it’s like the world has stopped. I feel like my son and I aren’t even related to him. I’ve gotten my nephew stuff and will even be visiting after the baby’s born to offer help, but my brother can’t even ask how my son is... he doesn’t even like my pictures I post of him on fb. I just want so much more for my son because I know how it felt when I was younger and my brother treated me like I didn’t exist. Like how is he going to feel when everyone’s swooning over my nephew and when we visit it’s just like ehhh 🤷🏻♀️ I would never treat my nephew like that. I don’t even think my brothers ONCE acknowledged he even has a nephew. Idk I guess this is more of a rant sorry
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