Just FYI I’m not trying to put my boyfriend on blast or anything. Lol I’m just looking for someone who may be going/have gone through this and has any advice.

So.. my boyfriend and I are expecting our first child November 4th, I’m 28 weeks. As of right now, I pay ALL of the bills... including rent, electric, insurance, and more. This is the first cycle of bills I’ve had to do it because he has had a job until now. But it just always feels like there’s an excuse as to why he quits his job.. (he doesn’t like his boss, he gets in trouble for calling off, etc.) He’s had 3 different jobs since we’ve been together. Nobody loves their job all of the time but you don’t just up and quit... I guess it’s different for me because I make more than him and also when the baby is born he will get to come to work with me so I literally can’t quit. I just feel like HOW in the world can you be okay with your 7 month pregnant girlfriend paying all of the bills and also having to worry about who’s going to pay the bills when I go on maternity leave? Like what if I had to go on maternity leave in 2 weeks? (Hopefully not!!) But what in the world would he do? It’s not like he hasn’t tried, he’s went to interviews and has a few jobs lined up that he’s just waiting to call but still... I just think this behavior is so immature. Any time I bring it up he immediately gets mad and asks why I’m trying to make him feel like crap. When all I want to know is how he plans to pay bills when I’m out of work.

Anyway, even if you don’t have advice, thanks for reading my rant 😂