Am I in the wrong?

Question

So here's the story. My husband paid off my car last year... He recently took a $5 pay cut for a better job (sounds weird I know... Better for the future). 
Now we're broke for a little bit which we new we would be and it would be a hardcore test for our very young marriage. 
Well he works two jobs and I just got a second job just started today. He feels I should help him out now and pay for the rest of his school bill that the union is not picking up. When he has a second job that goes to all of the fun stuff he wants to do and get. 
But my extra checks have to go to pay stuff off?!
Am I not seeing something? Am I in the wrong for telling him no? (I told him no and now he's pissed at me because he paid my car off a year ago.)

Answer

I would say that the issue you guys are having is that when you are married it should be a collective pool of money. Not mine and yours. You guys should attempt to list all. The bills and divide who will pay what and try to leave one another with the same or similar amounts of disposable income. So you both can have money to do fun things.

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I would sit down together and discuss financial goals then budget what you need to live off of and what to do with the extra money. You both just need to be on the same page. Marriage is compromise :)

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I'd say maybe you could help pay. But it shouldn't be all your responsibility. He can cut back on some fun stuff too. Like one month you pay the next month he pays.

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I'd just stop the fun money and use whatever larger funds to pay it down faster. It doesn't seem right that you pay it off and not have fun money for yourself. He chose to pay off your car that doesn't obligate you to pay off his bills.

Am I in the wrong?

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