So I recently went outta town with me and my children, my so was acting very conspicuous like I knew he was up to something, he didn’t go because he had appointments he had to go to, on my last night he was being all funny and teasing me , I’m going to the strip club.. I felt concerned because he can’t control his alcohol, and he’s becomes wild and flirty. I didn’t agree and told him he shouldn’t go I was upset. Then he was like oh I’m just kidding I’m not going, then a couple hours later he’s not answering his phone. He had his phone on him but then lied to me and said he left it at home. I know he left because I have a security system and it notifies me, so he ignores me all night and is with his friend and they went to the strip club. And then lied and lied and lied to me about it and he didn’t go... well he has the app lyft on his phone and I seen he went to the strip club. And to another bar. I just am upset because he lied and lied and lied to me

And instead of being respectful and truthful he lied and got caught,

I know if I were to do that he would freaked out on me~ what’s your thoughts?