Do you think it’s normal?

Question

More so out of curiosity I am wondering if it is normal or do other people think about my topic below. 
Do other people in relationships ever think or fantasize or discuss with others what it would be like if you and your SO split. Like who would you live with? Would you live alone? What if their are children involved? Are these thoughts signs of an unhealthy relationship?

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No I don't think so. Sometimes I think about what life without him would be like. It makes me so much more grateful and glad I have him ❤️

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We’ve never talk about that because there’s no way we’d split up unless death separates us. 22+ years together and still very happy.

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I think it’s normal for people to have thoughts and plans but if they are not acted on then there’s no wrong in that. We’re human and not everyday with our spouses is perfect

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We've talked about what would happen if one of us died, but not broke up. In the case of splitting, I'd most likely take the kids primarily and he would get them every weekend (only thinking about it now because it was brought up). I'd get a new place. Our house is way too expensive for me to afford. He'd probably seel it and get a smaller place. Or maybe he'd keep it. Not sure. If he dies, then he has this thing through he's been paying into that ensures I can pay off the mortgage in full and have enough left over to cover expenses for at least a year so I could mourn for a while before getting a job. If i die he will probably have his mom move in with him to help with the girls. Or hire a nanny.

Do you think it’s normal?

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