Husband pisses me off

So the other day my husband was like “omg the house is a mess, u don’t do anything” blah blah blah. So i went to work, and while at work I ask if he’s ok and he tell me “I’m fine, cleaning” so I was like whatever. Came home at 12 am after my shift and the house is upside down. Like this mf went through our closets and looked in every box and decided what we were gonna keep and what would be going in the garbage. That’d be fine If he would’ve thrown out everything, he thought was garbage worthy, but he didn’t. Instead he added to the already messy house. So now me on my day off, I have to throw out everything plus clean every mess he and our two year old make 🤯