This dude from work and I have been hooking up/talking to each other for a few months. We’ve literally hung out any chance we’ve gotten. Gone on dates. Met all his friends and went on vacation 2 weeks ago with him and friends. On Friday, we had sex and he said something that confused me right after. I thought he was joking but he said he wasn’t. I was getting frustrated and he did too. The next morning I texted sorry and nothing. Yesterday he texted asking me to bring something of his to work. I decided to ask him straight up if he wanted to hang out this week or at all anymore and he said we’ll see. Idk what that means??

Before we went on our trip, he sent me a long text saying that we’re both still single and free to do whatever we want. I asked him later why he felt he needed to send that and he said it was a “just in case” for our trip bc when he gets drunk he gets crazy sometimes. TODAY, a coworker told me he asked him what to say to a girl who’s going on a trip with him but he wants to hook up with other girls. That’s why he sent that to me. I’ve asked repeatedly if I was just a booty call and he’d always reassure me that I wasn’t and if I was he wouldn’t do all these things for me and wouldn’t keep me around for that long. He even told me the night we fought. He’s done a lot for me and has cared for me. Idk what to believe anymore or what to even do ??? I want to reach out later this week and see if he wants to hang but idk.