So my husband and I just got into it: he’s annoyed that I’m constantly feeling like crap and “never wants to have another baby” because he’s tired of me talking about how crappy I feel, that I feel like I’m going to throw up, or I’m tired. He says I whine all the time. Which isn’t true, I make statements like I feel sick or whatever... but I don’t whine about it. He says “it’s EVERY day!” Well, no shit. I said I’m sorry that me feeling like shit makes you so uncomfortable, it must be so hard to go through that as a spouse, so hard, to hear me throw up or be nauseous. I’ve cooked regardless of how I feel, and the one time I asked for help he got pissy about it.

I’m just so fed up with him acting like it’s so hard for him. If I mention how others husbands have cooked for them when they feel sick he says to stop comparing him. I just try to show the lack of support he’s giving and how telling me I’m whining while I already feel horrible isn’t helping or being supportive at all.