So my husband doesnt seem to make me orgasm when we have sex.

I tell him lets spice things up & try different things but he just wants to have sex cum & go to sleep its very hard for me to get in the mood theres no caressing or kissing or teasing. We have sex toys but really dont use them do to him not liking them. & for the longest time i been experinceing wit myself on making me squirt because i feel like thats so Hot. Anyways i usually masturbate thr next day due to him not pleaseing me that night . Anyways i told my husband i like playin wit myself thinking he would find that sexy. & he got mad that i play wit myself.

Wtf is his problem?