My husband was an inch bit romantic!

I’m 5 months pregnant and all he seems to care about is things concerning him. He says he loves and cares about me but I’m just not feeling it.

He works away so I’m:

- left to nurse a flu on my own

- whilst looking after a nearly two year old

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When he is home I don’t see much contribution from him with house stuff or the baby or even me.

I’ve poured out my heart to him but know seems to change and I don’t know what to do.

I want him to genuinely love me and show me. I’ve started to switch off my feelings and just go numb at times. We are in a young marriage- just under 3 years.

UPDATE: - I discuss this with him quite often.

We have read the book by Gary Chapman on love languages and try to speak each other’s languages but he is preoccupied with his own stuff he neglects me.