Fairly new here but just need some opinions.

Kathy

I’m 18 and married, we married in January my husband is 20 yrs old, and we have an almost 2 year old (in September) we are trying for baby #2, we have our own apartment and car, pay our own bills my mom helps out here and there with whatever she can, since we do live in California everything is a bit more expensive, no one knows we’re trying for baby #2 but my step dad is constantly asking if I’m still on birth control and has made it clear that we shouldn’t have another baby anytime soon, my mom doesn’t have much to say about it but my husband and I don’t want our kids to be too far apart (we are reaching for 4 kids total) I would like to stop having kids by 24 tops. Should I take into consideration by step dads opinion? Or do as we want? (Stepdad’s been in my life since I was 4) and also my husbands side of the family would probably stop talking to us, sounds ridiculous..I know, but they were furious when they found out about my daughter which was understandable since I was 16 and he was 18, we recently said we were pregnant (obviously joking) just to see how’d they would react and of course we got what we expected, they were ALL upset and “disappointed” my personal opinion is why the hell do they care so much if they don’t support us financially or any other way... am I wrong for this!? Sorry just had to let it out and speak about it to someone who isn’t my husband 😆

This is my Baby girl! Adalyn Sarai ❤️