Hi ladies,

My BF & I have been dating for 8 months now. I was on the ring, then switched off to birth control because his 🍆 was jamming my ring further into my shallow vagina. I hated the mood swings from birth control so switched back to the ring.

In the time I was switching .. yep .. I got pregnant. I told him last Tuesday that I was pregnant, and ALL he can talk about is that there are so many unknowns. He feels like ‘we were still working on us’ and he is scared if we don’t end up together.

Hearing this stuff over and over when I was SUPER excited (I am 35 and want kids very badly) .. is getting really exhausting. He is a guy that is EXTREMELY slow moving to the point it makes me want to gouge my eyes out.

Right before the news, we had a conversation about moving in together and he seemed extremely happy. Now all of that has changed and all he can think about is the negatives. He said something about money - and we BOTH make over $100K / year. He also said we haven’t discussed what types of parents we are going to be. I told him - you aren’t gonna know that until the baby is born!!!

He thinks every little aspect in life should be absolutely perfect.

He’s 40 years old, never been married & doesn’t have kids. I already told him I am having the baby. All of his negativity and ‘uncertainty’ feel like a scared cop-out. I think he’s so slow moving and has never had to work out a serious situation.. so this is utterly frightening to him.

When the hell is this behavior going to stop so he can be supportive? I am 5-6 weeks pregnant (I think). Comments appreciated!!!